It is important and very much important to know who you trust in life. The person you trust the most more than anyone else can have the power to destroy you more than anything or anyone else. Because you trust them, they will know so much about you whether negative and positive and will also discover your weaknesses more than anyone else.
It is more important to trust a dog than to trust a human being. It is much important to trust a tree or stone than never moves or speaks than to trust a human being. Above all, trusting in God is the most important to do. Not to trust anyone does not mean not loving anyone. Yes let us love people , all people but never to trust him or her or anyone. They say love them all but trust no one. If you trust your husband so much that you think he does not or will never cheat as compared to other men, then you get it all wrong. It will easily destroy you. Imagine after giving him so much trust, he can surprise you, destroy you and leave you in pain if you survive and not die. Sometimes you can survive but can die slowly inside because your happiness is destroyed. If you live a sad life, you might be destroying yourself slowly because a sad life is not worth living. Always be happy and stay away from all those things than can destroy your own happiness.
Remember always leave a room for disappointment so that you will never trust anyone to the extent of giving them so much power to destroy you. Once you leave a room for disappointment, no matter what they choose to do or say which might affect you, it will never have power to weigh down your happiness. Too much expectation can lead to disappointments. If you want to be happy, the rule is very simple, trust no one and try in as much as you can to maintain or increase your happiness in life. But try in as much as you can to love anyone.
Never ever put your trust in someone else because once you do, already you have handed over the power to someone so that they can destroy you . You will always have to please them or to be loyal to them even when they do not deserve it because you know very well that one simple move then it is game over for you. These people you trust usually know your deepest secrets even those secrets than can lead to your downfall or destruction. If we decide to trust in someone, let us make sure that whatever they do will never in any way destroy us.
Even if the person is a mother, a father, a sister, a relative, a friend, a neighbor, a enemy, that person should never be trusted. Not everyone you can trust will have the power to destroy you. Some may even be thinking of developing you in a positive way only. Some are only there for a good thing. Trust if you want but verify. Never put your happiness in someone’s hands by giving them so much trust. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair. It is very much to repair trust once it is broken. Remember trust is build with consistency, trust is earned through actions and not only through words. Sometimes it is better to trust yourself because as soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.
No matter who ever you choose to trust, just try and avoid trusting them to the extent of putting your faith in them. Faith is trust in ultimate meaning. My motto is, “in God I trust”. Not everyone can be trusted, I think we all have to be very selective about the people we trust. In the end, the choice is yours where to trust or not to trust someone. Trust is very fragile. Trust does not come with a refill. Once it is gone, you probably won’t get it back, and if you do, it will never be the same and that’s a fact.
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