Trust…

It is important and very much important to know who you trust in life. The person you trust the most more than anyone else can have the power to destroy you more than anything or anyone else. Because you trust them, they will know so much about you whether negative and positive and will also discover your weaknesses more than anyone else.

It is more important to trust a dog than to trust a human being. It is much important to trust a tree or stone than never moves or speaks than to trust a human being. Above all, trusting in God is the most important to do. Not to trust anyone does not mean not loving anyone. Yes let us love people , all people but never to trust him or her or anyone. They say love them all but trust no one. If you trust your husband so much that you think he does not or will never cheat as compared to other men, then you get it all wrong. It will easily destroy you. Imagine after giving him so much trust, he can surprise you, destroy you and leave you in pain if you survive and not die. Sometimes you can survive but can die slowly inside because your happiness is destroyed. If you live a sad life, you might be destroying yourself slowly because a sad life is not worth living. Always be happy and stay away from all those things than can destroy your own happiness.

Remember always leave a room for disappointment so that you will never trust anyone to the extent of giving them so much power to destroy you. Once you leave a room for disappointment, no matter what they choose to do or say which might affect you, it will never have power to weigh down your happiness. Too much expectation can lead to disappointments. If you want to be happy, the rule is very simple, trust no one and try in as much as you can to maintain or increase your happiness in life. But try in as much as you can to love anyone.

Never ever put your trust in someone else because once you do, already you have handed over the power to someone so that they can destroy you . You will always have to please them or to be loyal to them even when they do not deserve it because you know very well that one simple move then it is game over for you. These people you trust usually know your deepest secrets even those secrets than can lead to your downfall or destruction. If we decide to trust in someone, let us make sure that whatever they do will never in any way destroy us.

Even if the person is a mother, a father, a sister, a relative, a friend, a neighbor, a enemy, that person should never be trusted. Not everyone you can trust will have the power to destroy you. Some may even be thinking of developing you in a positive way only. Some are only there for a good thing. Trust if you want but verify. Never put your happiness in someone’s hands by giving them so much trust. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair. It is very much to repair trust once it is broken. Remember trust is build with consistency, trust is earned through actions and not only through words. Sometimes it is better to trust yourself because as soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.

No matter who ever you choose to trust, just try and avoid trusting them to the extent of putting your faith in them. Faith is trust in ultimate meaning. My motto is, “in God I trust”. Not everyone can be trusted, I think we all have to be very selective about the people we trust. In the end, the choice is yours where to trust or not to trust someone. Trust is very fragile. Trust does not come with a refill. Once it is gone, you probably won’t get it back, and if you do, it will never be the same and that’s a fact.

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Let us…

Let us all try to embrace and understand this, we all make mistakes and no one is perfect. I have made a lot of mistakes in which some I even fear to confess them or say them to anyone else. Sins may be disgraceful but let us be grateful for making them because in most if not all of the cases, we learn a lesson and it can bring forth something good or positive regarding our lives and the lives of others around us….

Let us all give attention and never judge those who choose to share their testimonies or experiences which are worth sharing and beneficial. The more you listen to motivational and inspirational things, the more your life gets better and the more wiser you get. Always learn to listen, pay attention and judge less because we are all not too clean to judge. We all have sins and we all have made mistakes, no one is perfect. It does not make sense at all to judge others whilst you do not really know their story.

Let us all be receptive to anything good, positive and beneficial as long as it is going to build us up and develop us and let us ignore anything bad or negative. We have to understand that mistakes are a best way of teaching us and our self development too so let us all embrace our mistakes and other people’s mistakes. If only people lived their lives without the fear of being judged, life was going to be more funnier and good.

People now fear to try new things, explore and experiment because of the fear of being judged and these words, “what will people say”. No one ever lived before so we all have a chance to experience things and experience is the simple name we give to our mistakes. We need to forgive ourselves for mistakes we have made and to forgive others for mistakes they have made too and move on, life is too short to be stuck on history while the future awaits.

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We need change in the Ministry of Sport, Arts and Recreation.

As I was listening to the radio some days ago, I was listening to studio 7 to be specific . I was touched by what I heard, it was during the burial of Lawrence Simbarashe popularly known as Mudhara bhonzo. There was an issue or a complain that the Government of Zimbabwe is not doing much to support those who fall under the Ministry of Sport, Arts and Recreation.

Zimbabwe is full of talent. There are many people who are talented in Zimbabwe but then the support base is too weak and can not do anything to protect musicians, actors, dancers, writers, dancers and many other talented people from one of the most challenging factors which is Piracy. Think of how much Wendy Williams is paid for gossiping but then, how many talented gossipers do we have in Zimbabwe? We need more talk shows, reality shows and so forth. Think of how many comedians we have, how much do they earn? Think of singers and actors then look at the level of piracy that’s is affecting them, how much are they earning? Look at other talented people from around the world or from financially stable countries, how much are they earning compared to those in Zimbabwe? Are they not making a living out of it.

First and foremost, the government of Zimbabwe should have Laws that protect and stand for talented people. We need laws against those that try to destroy or use talented people for their own benefit. These people are most of the promoters and also each and every person in the successful pattern of piracy. It is very hard to end piracy and corruption in Africa but at least something must be done. Wish people can now just download movies and music for free from the internet but can purchase it from the internet. In this way, at least the originators will gain something.

Most people from Zimbabwe are even talented when it comes to sports, hairdressing, fabric designing and sewing. Many people end up suffering while they have gifts that can make them earn and live a better life. Piracy and corruption are serious cases that should be dealt with. It is hard to end corruption and piracy but at least something can be done to limit it to the minimum level. Many Zimbabweans are lacking this spark to turn their lives into something good and positive and some end up giving up.

Look at when Mudhara Bhonzo died, no one from the Ministry of Sport, Arts and Culture came but Mudhara Bhonzo was a celebrity in Zimbabwe. He was a darling of many companies as they engaged him for adverts. He featured on local and international films. He was supposed to die a happy and satisfied man benefiting from his own talent. He ended up living from begging because of his ailments which affected his voice which was the root of his trade. How was he going to act with a very low voice? He hardly uttered audible words and he could no longer get advertising or acting roles.

At this point and time, the Ministry was supposed to intervene and assist him take care of his hospital bills and family. He played a big role in the Entertainment Industry to be particular. Amos Mahendere gave a speech on why the Government never attended or at least sent a representative from the Ministry of Sport, Arts and Recreation. The Minister of this Ministry Mr Kazembe Kazembe does not really know what his Ministry is all about and his duties as the Minister of Sport, Arts and Culture. We need a Minister with knowledge in this field or he must equip himself with whatever is needed to fulfill his duties.

Look at Cde Chinx, he played a very significant role in the liberation war of struggle. Like what Mr Mahendere said, can we do without entertainment in the form of music every now and then? When we are happy, sad, celebrating, crying and so forth, there are always songs, singing or some music going hand in glove with events that take place in our lives. We need music at parties and also at funerals people sing. Cde Chinx ended up getting a new house from the Zimbabwe Music Awards and some furniture gifts from individuals like Cde Joseph Chinotimba before his death. Was he not supposed to get this gift even before he fell ill? The Ministry should make sure talented people get tokens of appreciation and what they deserve. This will be a motivation and inspiration to all upcoming actors, singers, dancers, writers, designers and so forth. The house given to Cde Chinx had became doubtful given a history of some unfulfilled promises to artists by stakeholders in the arts industry.

Many talented Djs around the world are making waves but not in Zimbabwe. Yes in Zimbabwe some are making it but it is usually due to corruption, chance or luck. So does it mean those without connections must suffer? The Ministry of Sport, Arts and Culture must be fair to all and give equal opportunities to all. How many people are not entertained through people who fall under the wings of this Ministry of Sport, Arts and Culture? Zimbabwe is full of talent in as much as this entertainment industry is concerned in which this can even benefit the nation at large as long as the government gives these people a proper support base.

On another note, if the Ministry of Sport, Arts and Recreation will by any chance manage to give talented people what they deserve or help them get what they deserve, it is the duty of the actor, singer, dancer or writer to manage their income well. Some fail to manage their income and end up falling from grace. There are many examples of those who made it in this industry but lacked proper management and ended up suffering. One of the main things again is the Economy of Zimbabwe which is not stable.

It is not always that everyone who is talented or has a gift should automatically benefit but it takes passion and hard work. Never relax because you have a talent but push on, work hard and do whatever you do with love and passion then every good thing will start to follow. We should have also Organizations willing to help develop and artists all upcoming talent in Zimbabwe.

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About Marriage (2)…

Marriage is a good thing, a husband or a wife is really a good thing especially when the husband or wife comes from God. Imagine the joy of having someone you love and can spend the rest of your life with come what may. Marriage is indeed a blessing and not being married is not a curse. People get married for different reasons and people do not want to get married for different reasons too.

Is it not good having a nightmare and then you have someone who is lying next to you to wake you up and bring you back to consciousness from sleep then reminds you that it was just a dream while comforting you. Imagine falling sick at the middle of the night and you are with someone next to you ready to help you, does that not make you feel good? Imagine having someone who is always ready and prepared to protect you, fight for you, help you succeed and makes you happy.

It is not always the duty of the husband to help the woman climb the ladder of happiness or towards happiness but it is also the wife’s duty to help the husband rise too. Both the wife and husband have got very vital duties to play in marriages. Both men and women can contribute to long lasting relationships according to their potentials. As women, we help men in a different way and they do the same to us. A relationship or marriage should never be one sided.

Think of a man going extra miles to make sure that his family, wife and kids are happy. A lot is needed and most of the things needed are made possible by the wife. Think of a full stomach filled with scrumptious food, think of the clean nice clothes and shoes for those important money making events and also think of that motivation. Having a wife to men should not just be a blessing but it should also be a motivation and inspiration. As women, we should always learn and know how to motivate and encourage our men in as much as we can.

Have you ever noticed that some men may work day in and day out but you will never see any positive changes in their lives. It is just the same old them with the same old mindset. Once they have a wife, she might not only be cooking and washing for you but she can also give you some advise and ideas that will help you change in some positive way. Some men will become even more successful once they get married especially when they get married to the right person. It is sad that getting married to the wrong person or having been in wrong relationships might blind you to the extent of not seeing the good thing about marriage.

When dating , never rush or feel pressurized but take your time and think of the right person for you. Choose without pressure and according to your own opinions not anyone’s because people have got different opinions. Think of what makes you happy not what makes your friends and family happy because it is your life, whatever happens to it will greatly affect you and whatever way you choose to do with it or people decide to help you deal with it, will at one point or the other need your own efforts.

I always say marriage is not a child’s play. Never blame marriage for all the bad things you have seen in love and marriages but blame yourself for not having being good knowledge and wisdom upon making the decision. After all, blame is not the way out of problems but take it as a lesson and never think of blaming anything or anyone because everything happens for a reason and only a good reason. Never be blinded but the wrong things that happen but use those wrong and negative things as eye openers and be grateful for it.

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Mindset Impact (4)…

What you have is what you think and what you think is what you have. Somewhere and somehow, we are all results of our thoughts or how we live or what we go through is simply a reflection of what we carry in our heads. As a man thinketh, so he is. What do you think of yourself? So do you think bad or good about yourself? Do you think about failure or success regarding yourself? What is in your head?

Never underestimate the power of thoughts which can also be attached to the power of words. Are you speaking little or big about yourself? Let the thought you have about yourself and future help motivate and develop those around you and the next person. Never let your life be the centre of destruction but let it be the centre of motivation and inspiration. Live a life that will help others have and maintain a positive mind and positive thoughts.

I have read a lot about popular people’s success stories and most of them were seen as useless objects by many. Encourage others, strengthen others, motivate others and inspire others in a positive way. By so doing, you will be making the world a better place and your life better too. Let people see and believe the power of their thoughts and mindset. Do you help others rise or fall? Helping others is not only related to finances but it varies, you can help others by your simple thoughts.

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Death (2)…

As I think of death, I will never wish death on people whether I know them or not, whether they do good or bad and whether they have wronged me or not. No matter how much you may hate or dislike a person and wish they could just die and leave this world, remember someone out there or some people out there will be hurt by the death of that particular person. No matter how hard you pray and wish for someone’s death because they are of no value to you, remember someone out there is praying harder that they live long.

We have to accept death but it is very difficult to finally come to terms of accepting death and taking it as something which is part of life. How can death be part of life because death and life are parallel lines which never meet. Death is the opposite of life and in my own perspective, I do not see death as a part of life but as the end of life. Life is a journey we should all enjoy come what may and regardless of whatever challenges we may face. Some may take death as a hiccup in the journey of life and after that death hiccup, there is life (resurrection)

Always make sure that as you live your life, you are inspiring and motivating someone. Let that be one of the many goals we may have in as much as our lives are concerned. Even if you are going to die or we are going to die and leave this world, let everyone who remembers us have smiles on their faces. It is your duty and it is also my duty to make my life and the lives of everyone around us worth living. As you lay in bed to take a nap at the end of each day, ask yourself how many people you have inspired or built and helped develop in a positive way,how many people you have destroyed by your words and actions. Does that bring a smile on your face? If no, then take another day (tomorrow) as another chance to correct and rectify all the mistakes you have made.

If ever death is going to visit you, make sure that you have lived a life that motivates and inspires people to do better and their best. Never try to live a life whereby you do things to please people but do things you enjoy, love and like then people will eventually accept you and love you the way you are. Never live a life that will leave people with only sad memories about you but make sure you live a life that will leave people with good memories about you. Never pretend but let people know you for who you are and accept that.

Everyone here on earth is of much significance and never underestimate the value or significance of any person created by God. If there are people of no value to your life or people who bring bad memories to your life, always remember that there is someone somewhere out there who says this person is all I have. No matter how much you hate or you may hate another person, never wish them bad or never wish they could just die. Everyone has got his or her own value and not everyone can see everyone’s value until the time arrives.

Looking at our body parts, some of them may seem to be of less significance but when their time of serving their purpose arrives, these parts or organs are desperately needed. Think of how you mistreat or disrespect some people in life, think of how many people you disrespected, never valued, never gave them a chance to be with you or your attention but suddenly they die. You might start seeing their value or significance when they die that indeed something is now missing. Never regret when someone dies but cherish all the moments you had with the person.

Never wait until death arrives for you to see the value of others or the good in others but always seek for the good out of others and not the bad. I wish I could avoid and stop death but then, death is inevitable. They are a lot of things I wish i could stop but then, I have less power. Look at diseases like cancer, they pop up from nowhere and takes away life instantly. Look at HIV/AIDS and how it has wiped away people from the face of earth in the past and some innocent people even died, think of people born with diseases they do not even know where the hell they got them from, why and how. We have less power to stop or avoid death but let us at least do the best that we can to save Iives where and when we can.

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Death…

What does death mean to you? What comes to your mind when you think of death? Does the word, thought and feeling of death bring sadness or joy to your life? Have you ever thought of some people taking pills and drugs to save their lives while some are taking them to voluntarily end their lives? All done in the name of death it’s either you are running away from it and trying to save yourself from it or you are running towards it trying to meet i half way.

Yes we can do all that we can or want in life but no one will ever be ready for death. It is not easy to find someone saying they are ready to die unless if they are not happy and are trying to escape from something eating them up which I choose to call stress. Usually depressed people are the ones who can be found to be ready for death, for instance by trying or committing suicide or are always wishing if they could die.

A happy life can make you hate death because you still feel life is worth living because you are enjoying although they may seem to be challenges here and there. No one can ever be better or have less problems than anyone. We all have our challenges, problems and weaknesses so never let that make is seem as if life is not worth living.

Sometimes think of how happy and prepared you may seem to be about death. While holding on to that thought then you start thinking again of all the people you love, all the things you love, all the people who like you and everything else that you share the same love and likeness with… do you still want to die? I am sure we all like to spend as much time as we can with people we love, why because of creating memories. We really do not know or not sure of when exactly we are going to meet our loved ones after death if ever we are going to meet them.

Memories are too good and most memories if not all of them, as long as they are good memories, they will definitely make life worth living. We never know when each of us is going to die so let us make the best out of the people we have and the time we have with them. It is really hard to think of when you are going to die or knowing when you are going to die. It will verily make you so uncomfortable and might even start to eat you up. You start thinking a lot and planing a lot to fully prepare yourself but trust me, being fully prepared for death is a very difficult task of assignment.

Love and make the best out of each and every human being God gave us in life or brought into this world. No one here on earth belongs to anyone and no one owns anyone because we could have also had the power to prevent and cause death. We all belong to God since He is the one who brought us here or into this world and is the only one with the power to save us from death or take us back to him through death. We are like God’s flowers or plants so we do not really know when he is going to pluck any of His flowers or trees according to his choice and timing out of the field, farm or land.

Never underestimate yourself, always remember that you are a part of a puzzle in someone’s life but you may not know where you fit but someone’s life will never be complete without you. You are there for good purposes and not only for bad wrong reasons. You might not be of much significance to some people but to some others you are. Find the best and make the best out of the people God gave you in life be it family or friends. Imagine if someone dies or if you die and regret why you never had time to love and appreciate some things and people. Focus on the rose only and not on the thorns of the rose.

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